Here's hardline , in my opinion , go get the best divorce attorney you can find , your initial conference should be free , he can give you a better idea of the monies and division of marital assets , #1 file for divorce first before she does , it looks better in court .#2 It might not happen , it might already be happing , she's seeing someone else , for her too want to go this way now , you never know 

what a couple years up the road can equate 


. Turning loose of someone you have loved for so long is the hardest part . It might be hard for you to accept but go buy yourself a high priced call girl and it might jog that man back up in you . The quicker you quit feeling sorry for yourself and pick yourself back up and remember tell her Duck said Dam a Horse  Ride A Cowboy

 
           
 "WHITFIELD"




 
    
        I'd rather live my life believeing there is God and die to find out their isn't  . Than to live my life as if their wasn't  God and die to find out there is !   WHITFIELD